evan almighty really relevant?

I watched Evan Almighty today, and it was pretty interesting.
It may not seem very relevent but being the investigator I am I tried to find something I could take from it. So when "God" was telling evans wife something at the diner it was amazing!
"When you ask for patience does God give you patience or does he give you an opportunity to be patient, when you ask for courage does God give you courage or does he give you opportunities to be courageous"
I thought it was an amazingly relevant scene. Its so true we can ask ask ask and think were not getting any answers but really we do get them, often not in the form were expecting. For me its easy to just stick to what I want and I simply lose the opportunities God gives me. Recently, I've gotten into arguements easily and I've just been waiting for God to just to take it away but its a give and take relationship. We've been given free will, but it is important to still rely on God but also doing what God asked.